Style Self: The Anti-Stylist

His look isn’t exactly rebellious. Nor is it contrived. It’s just, well, what it is.






Photograph by Luigi Ciuffetelli www.luigic.com

Mickey Donatello lives by one fashion rule: “I look at what everyone else is wearing, and then I wear something different,” he says.

It’s that simple for Donatello, owner and food designer at Corner Bistro in Wilmington. “I don’t like to call myself a chef,” he says. “That’s like being a vet and calling yourself a doctor.”

Donatello, 42, used to make his rounds on the pro golf circuits before he hung up his spikes

to try on an apron.

But don’t think he ties on black-and-white saddle shoes like every other Joe on the green. “I’ve got an awesome pair of Dolce & Gabbana leopard-print loafers in Vegas,” he says. “I saw them, and it was a have-to-have situation.”

There have been a few of those situations, thanks to zappos.com, the online shoe store where Donatello frequently shops. “I ordered a pair of Pumas at 9 on a Wednesday night, got them Thursday by 2. They didn’t fit, so I sent them back and got a new pair by Friday,” he says.

Donatello says everyone “kind of busts on me” because of his shoe fetish. He sometimes even wears pointy shoes.

Today he wears paint-splattered Levis, a “crappy” T-shirt and Converse Chuck Taylor high-top sneakers, but for a night out, he dons a pair of stylish skinny jeans, loafers and a nice dress shirt.

“My deal is, if I see it and I like it, I buy it,” he says. “I don’t have any kind of specific look.”

That’s why he doesn’t get when people say, “I could never pull that off.”

“I’m like, ‘You’ve got two legs and a torso. What’s the problem?’”

Donatello digs H&M, Urban Outfitters, Kenneth Cole, Guess? and J.Lindberg, a designer of golf threads.

“It’s a slick, tight fitting, very European look,” he says. “Really cool, funky shirts.”

Shoes aside, Donatello’s prep time is minimal. “I just throw some gel in my hair, grab my glasses, and that’s that,” he says.

He sports a pair of polished specs from D&G.

“For people who don’t wear glasses, it’s a cool, novel thing,” he says. “For those of us who do, I figure if they have to be on my face, they might as well look good.”

Not too many ex-golfers—or men in general—wear designer leopard loafers with skinny jeans, but don’t think he’s impractical.

“Belts? I don’t do belts,” Donatello says. “When I golfed they were huge, but now I rarely tuck in my shirts. What’s the point?”

—Amy Kates



Lauren Bailey's got a brand new bag. The James Satchel is one of four styles that come in six color schemes.

Irresistible Attraction

A secret ingredient is the key to Bailey’s Bags.

Lauren Bailey found peace at the intersection of fashion and new-age shamanism. And she has magnets to thank.

The Hockessin native is the braintrust behind Bailey Bags, a line of Italian lambskin handbags that harness the healing properties of rare earth magnets. Each handbag strap contains two neodymium discs, which many believe promote wellbeing.

At the very least, it may help women get over sore shoulders from lugging around heavy bags all day.

“Between running around to work, gym and the grocery store, you can create strain on your muscles,” says Bailey “What these magnets do is promote healing.”

People for centuries have reaped the curative benefits of magnets. Some say they help balance ions in the blood stream and circulate oxygen to certain areas. They can also help reduce the negative effects of electromagnetic radiation from electronic devices such as cell phones and lap tops. Bailey, a regular practitioner of yoga and natural dieting, was drawn to magnets about the same time she began designing handbags as a sophomore in college nine years ago.

For all its curative properties, the bag is also eye-catching. New York-based designer Matt Murphy helped Bailey create a bold and minimalist look that spans four styles—a satchel, a tote, a hobo and a clutch—and six color schemes in soft Italian lambskin.

“People truly love the design,” Bailey says. “It’s nice for customers to know it won’t go out of style next week.”

Bailey, 27, is planning to launch a healthy-living blog from her website (www.baileybag.com) as well as a new fashion line that uses eco-friendly materials. For now, grab Bailey Bags online or at Flirt in Wilmington. —Matt Amis


Shannon Burns' daughter, Irelyn, models a tattoo pattern called "Rock and Roll Love."

Pretty and Punk

A new line of clothing and accessories pulls off both.

Shannon Burns has discovered a way to keep on rockin’ in the wee world.

The Wilmington fashion designer and mother of four recently expanded her oeuvre to include punk rock-inspired children’s and baby clothing and accessories for children and babies. Now her company, LuLuLux, has mohawked moms everywhere clamoring for more.

Burns started designing handbags for family and friends about three years ago. When her business launched in January, she found she could barely keep up with the demand for her children’s designs, including sundresses, tank tops, skirts and hair clips.

“With children, you can go a little bit flashier and out there,” Burns says. “Adults don’t always necessarily want something pink with giant polka dots and skulls. On a four-year-old, it looks cute no matter what.”

Burns’ fabrics are a kitschy mesh of graceful and gruesome, swerving between hearts and butterflies to carnival tattoos and skulls. Her customers love customizing items with 300 different fabric choices, which Burns culls from local fabric shops, eBay, even thrift stores. It’s hard to summarize the entire catalogue, as it truly runs the gamut from apple print to zebra print. Popular patterns include a tattoo design and others inspired by the film “The Nightmare Before Christmas.”

“People have told me I have a weird taste in fabrics because I like the pretty floral stuff and the skulls, too,” Burns says. “I guess it’s the contrast of pretty and ugly I’m drawn to. I like the light and the dark and not much in between.

“In the end, I want to make something that you can’t find in the mall.”

Burns, a former goth queen raised on mopey ’80s bands like The Smiths and The Cure, lets her musical tastes influence her fashion.

Her storefront for now is limited to her website, though she is working toward a table at next year’s Wilmington Flower Market after a positive reception at this year’s event. “I went this year with the kids, and people came up to me all day asking where they could buy the clothes. I was kicking myself.”

Visit www.lululux.com for ordering information, even if your idea of a hip young upstart is Michael Bublé. —Matt Amis

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January 2017

January 3 - 28  “Winter Group Show” Rotating Group Show features a variety of art in different styles and media. Custom Framing & Gift Certificates are always available. Gallery Hours:...

Cost: free

Where:
The Station Gallery
3922 Kennett Pike
Greenville, DE  19807
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Sports Card & Collectible Show at Aetna Fire Hall on Jan. 22—sign up now! -Sports Cards McFarlane Figures Comic Books Non-Sports cards Wrestling Items Vintage Starting...

Cost: $2

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Aetna Fire Hall
400 Ogletown Road
Newark, DE  19711
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Sponsor: A2Z Promotions
Telephone: 302-983-2636
Contact Name: Bob Harper
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The Rehoboth Beach Film Society announces the next play in the exciting series of National Theatre Live screenings. National Theatre Live is a groundbreaking project that presents the best of...

Cost: $18-$20

Where:
Cinema Art Theater
17701 Dartmouth Drive, #2
Lewes, DE  19958
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Sponsor: Rehoboth Beach Film Society
Telephone: 302-645-9095
Contact Name: Jeri Kaplan
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Belly Dance Classes with Zahra Beginner & intermediate classes open to teens and adults Sundays in January starting Jan 8th Beginner: 2:30-3:30 p.m. Intermediate: 1 - 2 p.m (must get...

Cost: $15-$42

Where:
Take the Lead Studio
320 Lantana Drive
Hockessin , DE  19711
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Sponsor: Take the Lead
Contact Name: Zahra
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The Resident Ensemble Players, Delaware’s professional acting company performing at the University of Delaware, presents The Bells by Theresa Rebeck. During the great Yukon gold rush of the...

Cost: $15 - $30

Where:
Thompson Theatre, Roselle Center for the Arts
110 Orchard Rd.
Newark, DE  19716
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Sponsor: Resident Ensemble Players
Telephone: (302) 831-2204
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Ah, typecasting—the baritone is always the bad guy! In Devils, Drunks & Dastardly Dudes, we’ll go on an operatic journey of men behaving badly. We’ll add a tenor to the mix, too… but we...

Cost: $29-$59

Where:
OperaDelaware Studio
4 South Poplar St.
Wilmington, DE  19801
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Sponsor: OperaDelaware
Telephone: 302-442-7809
Contact Name: Mary Wilcosky
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Come give curling a try! At this 2-hour intro-to-curling event we'll provide a basic lesson then coach you through a mini-game.  Whether you just want to cross #curling off your bucket list or...

Cost: $35

Where:
The Pond Ice Arena
101 John Campbell Rd
Newark, DE  19711
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January 3 - 28  “Winter Group Show” Rotating Group Show features a variety of art in different styles and media. Custom Framing & Gift Certificates are always available. Gallery Hours:...

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Where:
The Station Gallery
3922 Kennett Pike
Greenville, DE  19807
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Telephone: 302-654-8638
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The Rehoboth Beach Film Society announces the next play in the exciting series of National Theatre Live screenings. National Theatre Live is a groundbreaking project that presents the best of...

Cost: $18-$20

Where:
Cinema Art Theater
17701 Dartmouth Drive, #2
Lewes, DE  19958
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Sponsor: Rehoboth Beach Film Society
Telephone: 302-645-9095
Contact Name: Jeri Kaplan
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Notbybreadalone Ministries presents Feeding the Hungry Outreach. All are welcome to come and partake of food, fun and fellowship. Those who desire a better way of life through Jesus Christ are...

Cost: Free

Where:
2nd and 3rd Streets
Wilmington, DE  19801


Sponsor: Notbybreadalone Outreach Ministries
Telephone: 442-0440
Contact Name: Ministers Wayne and Stephanie Dumpson
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Guest speakers Patty Dailey-Lewis, executive director of the Beau Biden Foundation, and Delaware Family Court commissioner Loretta Young will discuss how participation in social media can too...

Cost: Free

Where:
Wilmington University - Dover
Building A Auditorium
3282 N DuPont Highway
Dover, DE  19901
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Sponsor: Wilmington University College of Social & Behavioral Sciences
Telephone: 302-295-1164
Contact Name: Dr. Johanna Bishop
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January 3 - 28  “Winter Group Show” Rotating Group Show features a variety of art in different styles and media. Custom Framing & Gift Certificates are always available. Gallery Hours:...

Cost: free

Where:
The Station Gallery
3922 Kennett Pike
Greenville, DE  19807
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Tuesdays and Thursdays from 9:30AM-12:00PM Fall session: Thursday, Dec 1st thru Thursday, December 15th Winter session: Tuesday, January 17th thru Thursday, March 30th   Drop in on Nature is...

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Where:
The Annex
501 Chandler Mill Rd
Kennett Square, PA  19348
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Sponsor: The Land Conservancy
Telephone: 610-347-0347 ext.104
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East Coast Garden Center Indoor Farmers Market Nov 8, 2016 - April 11, 2017  11 am- 2 pm 25 vendors Location:  East Coast Garden Center 30366 Cordrey Rd Millsboro, DE 19966 302-945-3489

Cost: frr

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East Coast Garden Center
30366 Cordrey Rd
Millsboro, DE  19966
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Telephone: 302-945-3489
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East Coast Garden Center Indoor Farmer's Marke 25 vendors

Cost: Free

Where:
East Coast Garden Center
30366 Cordrey Rd
Millsboro, DE  19966
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The Rehoboth Beach Film Society announces the next play in the exciting series of National Theatre Live screenings. National Theatre Live is a groundbreaking project that presents the best of...

Cost: $18-$20

Where:
Cinema Art Theater
17701 Dartmouth Drive, #2
Lewes, DE  19958
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Sponsor: Rehoboth Beach Film Society
Telephone: 302-645-9095
Contact Name: Jeri Kaplan
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A four-week series of ballroom dancing classes taught by teachers from the BlueBallroom. Tuesdays starting Jan. 10. Classes are $30 a lesson for Non-Members. Non-Member slots are limited. For...

Cost: $30

Where:
University and Whist Club
805 N Broom St
Wilmington, DE  19806
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January 3 - 28  “Winter Group Show” Rotating Group Show features a variety of art in different styles and media. Custom Framing & Gift Certificates are always available. Gallery Hours:...

Cost: free

Where:
The Station Gallery
3922 Kennett Pike
Greenville, DE  19807
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Telephone: 302-654-8638
Website »

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The Rehoboth Beach Film Society announces the next play in the exciting series of National Theatre Live screenings. National Theatre Live is a groundbreaking project that presents the best of...

Cost: $18-$20

Where:
Cinema Art Theater
17701 Dartmouth Drive, #2
Lewes, DE  19958
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Sponsor: Rehoboth Beach Film Society
Telephone: 302-645-9095
Contact Name: Jeri Kaplan
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January 3 - 28  “Winter Group Show” Rotating Group Show features a variety of art in different styles and media. Custom Framing & Gift Certificates are always available. Gallery Hours:...

Cost: free

Where:
The Station Gallery
3922 Kennett Pike
Greenville, DE  19807
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Telephone: 302-654-8638
Website »

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Tuesdays and Thursdays from 9:30AM-12:00PM Fall session: Thursday, Dec 1st thru Thursday, December 15th Winter session: Tuesday, January 17th thru Thursday, March 30th   Drop in on Nature is...

Cost: see description

Where:
The Annex
501 Chandler Mill Rd
Kennett Square, PA  19348
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Sponsor: The Land Conservancy
Telephone: 610-347-0347 ext.104
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Thursdays from 4:00PM-5:30PM Fall session: December 1st, 8th and 15th Winter session: Starts January 19th, every other Thursday until March 30th This program is based entirely outdoors and is...

Cost: Cost: $30 for TLC members / $40 for non-members

Where:
Bucktoe Creek Preserve
432 Sharp Rd
Avondale, PA  19311
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Sponsor: The Land Conservancy
Telephone: 610-347-0347 ext.104
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MARC BROUSSARD In 2004, Marc Broussard, then a precocious 22-year-old singer/songwriter, released his major-label debut; he called it Carencro, after the Louisiana town where he was born and...

Cost: $22 SRO- $32 SEATED

Where:
World Cafe Live Wilmington
500 N Market St
Wilmington, DE  19801
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Telephone: 215-222-1400
Contact Name: MP Intern
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The Resident Ensemble Players, Delaware’s professional acting company performing at the University of Delaware, presents The Bells by Theresa Rebeck. During the great Yukon gold rush of the...

Cost: $15 - $30

Where:
Thompson Theatre, Roselle Center for the Arts
110 Orchard Rd.
Newark, DE  19716
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Sponsor: Resident Ensemble Players
Telephone: (302) 831-2204
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January 3 - 28  “Winter Group Show” Rotating Group Show features a variety of art in different styles and media. Custom Framing & Gift Certificates are always available. Gallery Hours:...

Cost: free

Where:
The Station Gallery
3922 Kennett Pike
Greenville, DE  19807
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Telephone: 302-654-8638
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Tutto Fresco has live entertainment every Friday night from 6:30–9:30 p.m. Call for details. http://tuttofrescode.com/

Where:
Tutto Fresco
514 Philadelphia Pike
Wilmington, DE  19809
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The Resident Ensemble Players, Delaware’s professional acting company performing at the University of Delaware, presents The Bells by Theresa Rebeck. During the great Yukon gold rush of the...

Cost: $15 - $30

Where:
Thompson Theatre, Roselle Center for the Arts
110 Orchard Rd.
Newark, DE  19716
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Sponsor: Resident Ensemble Players
Telephone: (302) 831-2204
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Meeting every Friday, Bayhealth Kent General Hospital, 640 s. State Street, Dover, 7:30 pm., Private Dining Room #3 in the basement. For those who have, or think they may have a gambling problem....

Cost: 0.00

Where:
Bayhealth Kent General Hospital
640 S. State Street
Private Dining Room #3
Dover, DE  19901
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Telephone: 800-855-2CALLGA
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Cost: $12-$20

Where:
Wilmington Drama League
10 West Lea Blvd.
Wilmington, DE  19802
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Sponsor: Wilmington Drama League
Telephone: 302-764-3396
Contact Name: Kathy Buterbaugh
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January 3 - 28  “Winter Group Show” Rotating Group Show features a variety of art in different styles and media. Custom Framing & Gift Certificates are always available. Gallery Hours:...

Cost: free

Where:
The Station Gallery
3922 Kennett Pike
Greenville, DE  19807
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Telephone: 302-654-8638
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January 28 – Saturday – 1 to 4 p.m. Science Saturday – Truss Me, You Won’t Fall! Become an engineer for the day. Design a bridge to hold as much weight as possible....

Cost: Activities are included in regular admission and free for members.

Where:
Hagley Museum
201 Hagley Creek Road
Wilmington, DE  19807
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Sponsor: Hagley Museum
Telephone: (302) 65802400 x 238
Contact Name: Jessica Eisenbrey
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The Resident Ensemble Players, Delaware’s professional acting company performing at the University of Delaware, presents The Bells by Theresa Rebeck. During the great Yukon gold rush of the...

Cost: $15 - $30

Where:
Thompson Theatre, Roselle Center for the Arts
110 Orchard Rd.
Newark, DE  19716
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Sponsor: Resident Ensemble Players
Telephone: (302) 831-2204
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GRILLED CHEESE AND CRAFT BEER TASTING We have taken two of the best things on earth and paired them together – Grilled Cheese and Craft Beer – and paired them together in unexpected and...

Cost: $40

Where:
World Cafe Live Wilmington
500 N Market St
Wilmington, DE  19801
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Telephone: 215-222-1400
Contact Name: MP Intern
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Saturday, January 28, 2017 at  7:30 pm at St. David’s Episcopal Church, 763 Valley Forge Rd, Wayne, PA 19087 Sunday, January 29, 2017 at 3 pm at Church of the Holy Trinity, Rittenhouse Square...

Cost: Tickets are $25 online, and $30 at the door. Student tickets $10 at the door.

Where:
Church of the Holy Trinity
1904 Walnut St.
Philadelphia, PA  19103
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Sponsor: Lyric Fest
Telephone: 215-438-1702
Contact Name: Jessica Nelson
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Fan favorite, Dick Smith, returns to the Dickinson Theatre Organ Society concert stage on Saturday, Jan. 28, 2017 for a show that is sure to bring the house down! Dick Smith has been a...

Cost: $15 Adults; $10 Students

Where:
John Dickinson High School Auditorium
1801 Milltown Road
Wilmington, DE  19808
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Sponsor: Dickinson Theatre Organ Society
Telephone: 302-995-2603
Contact Name: Bob Dilworth
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The Dickinson Theatre Organ Society presents Dick Smith. For tickets, click here: http://www.dtoskimball.org/events-tickets/ticket-information/ For further information, please call us at...

Where:
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The Resident Ensemble Players, Delaware’s professional acting company performing at the University of Delaware, presents The Bells by Theresa Rebeck. During the great Yukon gold rush of the...

Cost: $15 - $30

Where:
Thompson Theatre, Roselle Center for the Arts
110 Orchard Rd.
Newark, DE  19716
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Sponsor: Resident Ensemble Players
Telephone: (302) 831-2204
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Cost: $12-$20

Where:
Wilmington Drama League
10 West Lea Blvd.
Wilmington, DE  19802
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Sponsor: Wilmington Drama League
Telephone: 302-764-3396
Contact Name: Kathy Buterbaugh
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MOTHERSHIP Mothership is the area's premier Led Zeppelin Tribute show. Composed of seasoned, professional musicians Mario Padovani - vocals, keyboards, Frank Ginocchio - drums, Chris Julian -...

Cost: 15

Where:
World Cafe Live Wilmington
500 N Market St
Wilmington, DE  19801
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