Restaurant BYOB Tips in Maryland and Pennsylvania from Roger Morris

BYOB 101: A few pointers for those who bring their own.



The first time I dined at a restaurant where you had to bring your own bottle was several years ago while first vacationing on Martha’s Vineyard. When Prohibition was repealed in 1933, a couple of local towns there never got around to turning back the clock. If you wanted a drink, you could bring your own—wine, beer, spirits. The restaurant might charge a corkage fee.

In recent years, Pennsylvania restaurants have turned a major negative—limited liquor licenses, and expensive ones at that—into a marketing positive. Some BYOBs even took on speakeasy-like status by renting out wine and spirits lockers where regulars could store their stash. I’m told there are BYOBs in Maryland, but fewer than in Pennsylvania.

However, being a BYOBer does put pressure on you to do it right. Here are some tips:

  • Check out the corkage fees when you make reservations so there will be no surprises. Also ask if the fee is per bottle or per table. Per bottle can get expensive, so don’t go crazy opening bottles you’re not prepared to drink.
     
  • If you’re with a group, take more white wines than red wines. (A) Men only want to show off their best reds—trust me on that. (B) Everyone starts with a white, most appetizers are made to go with white and you spend a lot of time drinking white before the apps come. If someone orders chicken or fish for an entrée, the white is already gone.
     
  • Buy a decent, insulated carrier that will hold four bottles (unless you always dine by yourself). If you wear a hoodie and jeans down to your knees, a paper bag is OK.
     
  • It makes more sense to bring your more-expensive bottles to a BYOB. If your corkage fee is, say $15, and your bottle costs $12, you’re almost paying wine list prices. If it’s $15 for a $75 bottle—well, you run the numbers.
     
  • Take along a corkscrew. Things tend to get busy just when you get thirsty, so add DIY to BYOB—but tell your server when you’re seated that you may be assisting him.
     
  • If you’re drinking an expensive trophy bottle, check in advance if the restaurant has decanters available. Many, but not all, will.
     
  • If you’re having multiple bottles, re-use some glasses. Too many glasses equals knocked-over glasses and spilled wine, plus your server will hate you for the hassle. Special occasion? Make arrangements in advance.
     
  • You own the bottle. If you want to pour at your own rate, do it. If your bottle is cold enough and you don’t need a drippy ice bucket, say so.
     
  • If you open something particularly good, send a glass back to the chef. You will be remembered next visit.
     
  • It’s OK to leave partly full (or partly empty) bottles at the table. Your wait staff will love you. But, if you do re-cork something, be sure you have it well-stored in your trunk on your way home or risk paying serious fines.

BTW, sneaking peeks at what other BYOBers are drinking is OK. Tweeting OMG pics of good or bad choices is definitely NG.

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501 Chandler Mill Rd
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Cost: Free with Admission

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Delaware Museum of Natural History
4840 Kennett Pike
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432 Sharp Rd
Avondale, PA  19311
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Cost: $25-35

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Winterthur Museum, Garden and Library
5105 Kennett Pike
Wilmington, DE  19807
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Cost: $15 - $30

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Thompson Theatre, Roselle Center for the Arts
110 Orchard Rd.
Newark, DE  19716
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Gina Sicilia has been wowing audiences across the globe throughout her decade-long career, with no plans of slowing down anytime soon. Considered a true rising star in the blues world, her debut...

Cost: $12 ADV - $15 DOS + FEES

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Cost: free

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The Station Gallery
3922 Kennett Pike
Greenville, DE  19807
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Telephone: 302-654-8638
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Uncover the facts, fictions, and fossils of Dinosaur Revolution as you LIVE LARGE in reptilian role-play activities. Undertake three Mesozoic Missions spanning 150 million years and mimic dinosaur...

Cost: Free with Admission

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Delaware Museum of Natural History
4840 Kennett Pike
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Telephone: 302-658-9111
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Cost: Adults: $9 Children (3-17): $7 Seniors (60+): $8 Under 3: FREE Members: FREE

Where:
Delaware Museum of Natural History
4840 Kennett Pike
Wilmington, DE  19807
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Cost: Free with Museum admission

Where:
Delaware Art Museum
2301 Kentmere Parkway
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Cost: $12 Members, $14 Non-Members (Café lunch voucher included in price)

Where:
Delaware Art Museum
2301 Kentmere Parkway
Wilmington, DE  19806
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Tutto Fresco
514 Philadelphia Pike
Wilmington, DE  19809
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Cost: 0.00

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Bayhealth Kent General Hospital
640 S. State Street
Private Dining Room #3
Dover, DE  19901
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OperaDelaware Studio
4 South Poplar St.
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Cost: $15 - $30

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Thompson Theatre, Roselle Center for the Arts
110 Orchard Rd.
Newark, DE  19716
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Cost: $15 ADV - $17 DOS + FEES

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Cost: Free

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First State Heritage Park
121 Martin Luther King, Jr. Blvd N
Dover, DE  19901
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Sponsor: First State Heritage Park
Telephone: 302-739-9194
Contact Name: Sarah Zimmerman
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Cost: free

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The Station Gallery
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Cost: Free

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121 Martin Luther King, Jr. Blvd N
Dover, DE  19901
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Cost: Adults: $9 Children (3-17): $7 Seniors (60+): $8 Under 3: FREE Members: FREE

Where:
Delaware Museum of Natural History
4840 Kennett Pike
Wilmington, DE  19807
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Website »

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Uncover the facts, fictions, and fossils of Dinosaur Revolution as you LIVE LARGE in reptilian role-play activities. Undertake three Mesozoic Missions spanning 150 million years and mimic dinosaur...

Cost: Free with Admission

Where:
Delaware Museum of Natural History
4840 Kennett Pike
Newark, DE  19807
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Telephone: 302-658-9111
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Where:
Kalmar Nyckel Foundation
1124 E 7th St
Wilmington, DE  19801
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Cost: Free with Museum admission

Where:
Delaware Art Museum
2301 Kentmere Parkway
Wilmington, DE  19806
View map »


Website »

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During his lifetime W. Heath Robinson (1872–1944) was ranked with Arthur Rackham and Edmund Dulac as one of England’s foremost illustrators. Beginning in the 1890s, Robinson developed a linear...

Cost: Free with Museum admission

Where:
Delaware Art Museum
2301 Kentmere Parkway
Wilmington, DE  19806
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Cost: $30

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Various Locations
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Cost: Free with Museum admission

Where:
Delaware Art Museum
2301 Kentmere Parkway
Wilmington, DE  19806
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Website »

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The Resident Ensemble Players, Delaware’s professional acting company performing at the University of Delaware, presents The Elephant Man by Bernard Pomerance. The moving tale of John Merrick, a...

Cost: $15 - $30

Where:
Thompson Theatre, Roselle Center for the Arts
110 Orchard Rd.
Newark, DE  19716
View map »


Sponsor: Resident Ensemble Players
Telephone: (302) 831-2204
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500 North Market Street
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