Concerns Many Face When Caring for Elderly Parents

As mom and dad age, the children caring for them may need help dealing with health, money and emotional issues.


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Ellie and Ed Searl with Ed's father, Clint.

 As a Unitarian minister for 30 years, Ed Searl has seen firsthand the challenges those under his pastoral care faced with aging parents. So when his own mother and father were experiencing problems, he and his wife, Ellie, came up with an unusual strategy. In January 2013, they moved from their home in the Chicago suburbs into his family’s Delaware home. “I really don’t like nursing homes under the best of circumstances, and I didn’t want my parents to have to endure the indignities that come with those changes,” he says. His father and mother were 97 and 96, respectively, but not in ill health. They were simply showing their ages and requiring a little more care. But Ed’s mother died in June from complications from a C. diff infection she acquired while on post-operative antibiotics. His dad carries on—slower and not as mentally sharp as he once was, but essentially healthy. Serving as on-site, 24-7 caregivers isn’t easy for the Searls, both in their 60s. “There’s a sense of putting about 80 percent of your life on hold,” says Ellie, who works as a freelance book designer. “The commitment has to be really, really strong. It’s kind of a mini-limbo, because you don’t know at what point your life isn’t going to be on hold anymore.”

A Rising Tide

The baby boom generation—that explosion of births in the wake of the Allied victory in World War II and spurred by the national economic prosperity that followed—has long been a significant indicator for economists, politicians and advertisers. From the counter-culture movement of the 1960s to the Reagan Revolution of the 1980s, this massive demographic bulge has moved through the late 20th and early 21st century, affecting everything in its path. One of the biggest concerns, particularly on the economic and political front, was what would happen when boomers hit retirement age. Would the nation’s system of social and financial safety nets withstand the sudden demands of millions of retirees? But what many of those business and political decision makers didn’t realize was that many of the baby boomers’ parents, benefiting from improved living conditions and better health care, would still be around to draw on social welfare and health-care resources.

This combination of factors has created what a report by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention called “The State of Aging and Health in America 2013” says is “an urgent need” for more services for the oldest in our society. According to the study, current trends will result in the number of Americans over the age of 65 doubling to 72 million over the next 25 years. By 2030, the report suggests, those over the age of 65 will make up approximately 20 percent of the nation’s population. With age comes an increased potential for sickness. Since the 1920s, heart disease and cancer have been the leading causes of death in older adults across all ethnic groups. Today, those illnesses are trailed (in descending order) by chronic lower respiratory diseases, stroke, Alzheimer’s disease, diabetes and a combined category that includes influenza and pneumonia. While many people are living significantly longer than previous generations, this has meant that “long-term care” for chronic health problems has come to mean a much longer term. As a result, many boomers are spending time they expected to be enjoying retirement providing ongoing care for their parents.

A Tale of Two Families

Heather and Richard, a married Middletown couple who requested that their last name not be used, have seen both sides of the coin. Heather and her brother helped their mother through her struggle with cancer nearly a decade ago, and now, she and her husband are dealing with multiple issues with Richard’s parents. In many ways, that is where the similarity ends. Heather’s mother was open-minded, prepared and accommodating to her children during her cancer diagnosis and making final arrangements. In contrast, Richard’s parents, who are facing myriad health problems, including cancer, declining mobility and early-stage Parkinson’s disease, are avoiding help from their six children. “The families are very different in that respect,” Heather says. “My husband’s family is all spread out, and some don’t talk. There’s a lot of threatening to take people out of the will.” 

In addition, her husband, as the youngest of the siblings, doesn’t want to overstep bounds that might offend his brothers and sisters—or possibly obligate them to more care than they’re willing to handle. “His father’s driving is terrifying, but no one has the nerve to speak up and say, ‘You really shouldn’t be driving anymore,’ because that means they’d have to drive him,” Heather says. Her mother-in-law’s bone cancer, meanwhile, has left her unable to walk. “And she’s too proud to be that woman in the scooter, but she can’t drive anymore either because the leg that’s the worst is the driving leg.” When family members attempt to broach the subject of estate planning or extended-care arrangements, they are rebuffed. “If you question Richard’s family about their finances, you’re after their money,” Heather says. Though her journey with her own mother’s illness was more manageable, it had its challenges, too. “I had young kids while taking care of an elderly, sick mother. My kids had to be on the bus at 8 a.m., and sometimes, I had an 8:15 appointment with mom at the [Helen F.] Graham Cancer Center,” she says. “They were in the first and fourth grade, and it was tough trying to balance that. Richard had to turn into super dad.”

Navigating the Family Dynamic

Heather and her brother were fortunate when it came to finances, too. Their mother’s own experiences with estate battles—particularly between her second husband’s children from a previous marriage—made her realize the importance of financial planning. When she became ill, she presented her children with a checkbook and bank account in both their names. After she died, her assets went into a trust that was divided evenly between them. There is also an emotional toll in addition to money and health worries. Just ask Todd Holtz. The Wilmington resident spends most of his time in Downingtown, Pa., looking after his 78-year-old father and managing the care of his 77-year-old mother, who lives in a nursing home because of her Alzheimer’s disease. 

Holtz describes his father as a classic Midwest-born, Korean War veteran descended from German stock—stoic, determined and stubborn. Even when his mother began to lose her memory and became verbally and physically abusive, his father circled the wagons. “His attitude was, ‘We’ll deal with this,’” Holtz says. “He really didn’t want to talk about it too much. He wanted to try to handle stuff. My dad put up a good fight for years, trying to help her even though she was getting violent with him.” Holtz, who is single, tries to find ways to handle the stress. “I don’t know if I’ve really found a process,” he says. “Sometimes, just work, just wrapping your head around something normal. Sometimes, you really have to get out and do stuff, but you still feel like you have to check in and make sure the house isn’t on fire or that he hasn’t fallen down on the floor. I am my father’s son in certain ways, and some therapy and support groups probably wouldn’t be bad for me. I haven’t really gotten there, but maybe I will soon.”

Finding Solutions

But when do you talk to aging parents about their futures? “It’s not a nice thing to think about what’s going to happen to your parents when they get older,” says Joanna Shea, administrator of CARE (Caregiver Assistance, Respite, Education) Delaware. “People just need to sit down and have that family meeting. ‘Say you have a stroke, who do want to make decisions for you, the doctors that are there or us?’ The more proactive we encourage folks to be, believe me, when it happens, it’s much easier to deal with.” Having that initial discussion with parents can be difficult. Outside help can pave the way. “Counselors can’t tell people what to do, but they are good at starting the conversation,” says Lisa Bond, deputy director of the Delaware Division of Services for Aging and Adults with Physical Disabilities (DSAAPD). Consulting a financial adviser can also be beneficial. “There are a number of issues that need to be addressed on the legal and the financial side,” says Bill Denney, a partner at Newton One LLC in Newark. “We’ll ask that question, ‘What do you know about your parents’ planning as it relates to elder care or retirement?’ And that’s the first entrée into whether these adult children have had any dialogue with their parents.” 

Shea of CARE Delaware recommends a simple checklist:

  • Learn about the disease or condition.

  • Explore your options; write down your needs.

  • Research community resources.

  • Plan for the future.

  • Get support.

  • Take care of yourself as a caregiver.

Community groups, like the Delaware Aging and Disability Resource Center (www.delawareadrc.com), can aid in the process, she says. “Delaware has a wealth of resources,” Shea says. “We just need to tap into them.” She also suggests that caregivers take advantage of the opportunities for home and respite care in order to take care of themselves. “People have to find balance,” Shea says, especially those caring for parents and kids. “I tell those people to get into support groups and get as much community support as they can, because if the person in the middle doesn’t maintain their sanity, things fall apart.”

 

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LEGALLY BLONDE JR. Tickets: $10 All Seats Based on the award-winning Broadway musical and the smash hit motion picture, Legally BlondeThe Musical JR. is a fabulously fun journey of...

Cost: $10.00

Where:
Everett Theatre
47 W. Main Street
Middletown, DE  19709
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CCArts Winter class registrations are open   The Center for the Creative Arts presents its Winter 2019 class and workshop offerings. With over 50 classes and workshops there is...

Cost: 0.00

Where:
410 Upper Snuff Mill Row
410 Upper Snuff Mill Row
Hockessin, DE  19736
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Telephone: 302-239-2434
Contact Name: Nicole Schmid
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Winter Group Show  A rotating group show featuring an eclectic mix of artwork including paintings, drawings, ceramics, art glass and jewelry. Custom Framing and Gift Certificates are always...

Cost: free

Where:
The Station Gallery
3922 Kennett Pike
Greenville, DE  19807
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Telephone: 302-654-8638
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A SENSE OF PLACE 47°-80° N Bethany Springer January 16 - May 12, 2019 Opening Reception: Friday, February 1, 2019 | 5 - 9 PM during Art Loop A Sense of Place 47° - 80°...

Cost: FREE

Where:
The Delaware Contemporary
200 South Madison Street
Wilmington, DE  19801
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Telephone: 130-265-66466
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Bernard Jackson Felch, who passed away in 2008 at the age of 83, was an accomplished water-colorist, sculptor, ceramicist and teacher whose work has been seen in museums, schools, universities,...

Cost: Free

Where:
Delaware College of Art and Design’s Toni & Stuart
600 N. Market St.
Wilmington , DE  19801
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Sponsor: DCAD
Telephone: 302-622-8000
Contact Name: Susan Couby

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Wilmington Coin Show January 17, 18, 19 2019 10 AM to 6 PM Thursday and Friday 10 AM to 5 PM Saturday   Nur Shrine Temple 198 South DuPont Highway New Castle, DE 19720   Sponsor is the...

Cost: Free

Where:
Nur Shrine Temple
198 South DuPont Highway
New Castle, DE  19720
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Sponsor: Wilmington Coin Club
Telephone: 610-675-6186
Contact Name: Ken Sammut

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Pre-Raphaelite painter and women’s rights campaigner Barbara Leigh Smith Bodichon (1827–1891) was an early female participant in the Pre-Raphaelite movement. Landscape was Bodichon’s...

Cost: Free for members. Included in Museum admission fee for non-members.

Where:
Delaware Art Museum
2301 Kentmere Parkway
Wilmington, DE  19806
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For more than 90 years, the Delaware Art Museum has showcased contemporary craft by artists working locally and throughout the region. The Museum’s first juried Contemporary Crafts Show was...

Cost: Free for members. Included in Museum admission fee for non-members.

Where:
Delaware Art Museum
2301 Kentmere Parkway
Wilmington, DE  19806
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NEW HEIGHTS Erica Loustau  January 11 - December 11, 2019 Opening Reception: Friday, January 11, 2019  7 - 9 PM Seeking to engage the unused space of our atrium lobby, artist...

Cost: FREE

Where:
The Delaware Contemporary
200 South Madison Street
Wilmington, DE  19801
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Telephone: 130-265-66466
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IN BETWEEN THEREShelley Thorstensen November 24, 2018 - March 17, 2019 Opening Reception: Friday, December 7 | 5 - 9 PM during Art Loop For her first solo exhibition in Delaware,...

Cost: FREE

Where:
The Delaware Contemporary
200 South Madison Street
Wilmington, DE  19801
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Telephone: 130-265-66466

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THE FAR IS NEAR Graham Dougherty & Ruth Ansel January 5 - 31, 2019 Opening reception: January 11  | 7 - 9 PM Graham Dougherty  ”We give shape...

Cost: FREE

Where:
The Delaware Contemporary
200 South Madison Street
Wilmington, DE  19801
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Telephone: 130-265-66466

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HALF : HALF A Draper Experiment by Willie Yao January 4 -  February 24, 2019 Opening Reception: Friday, February 1 5 - 9 PM during Art Loop The Delaware Contemporary...

Cost: FREE

Where:
The Delaware Contemporary
200 South Madison Street
Wilmington, DE  19801
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Telephone: 130-265-66466

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Schedule a private group tour followed by lunch or dinner with a historic, revolutionary war era presentation.* Ideal for conferences, corporate meetings, special interest groups. $25 per...

Cost: $25–$45

Where:
The University and Whist Club
805 N Broom St
Wilmington, DE  19806
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Sponsor: The University and Whist Club
Telephone: 302-658-5125
Contact Name: Stacey Inglis
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ORIGINS Rick Rothrock & Stan Smokler January 8 - April 22, 2019 Special Reception: Friday, January 11, 2019  5:30 - 7:30 PM Artist Talk | 6:30 PM The Delaware Contemporary...

Cost: FREE

Where:
The Delaware Contemporary
200 South Madison Street
Wilmington, DE  19801
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Telephone: 130-265-66466

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Featuring designer solutions for small interior spaces and backyards, hands-on DIY project workshops and a Succulent Bar, more than 300 exhibitors, and home design celebrities Clint Harp and Matt...

Cost: $10

Where:
Pennsylvania Convention Center
1101 Arch Street
Exhibition Hall F
Philadelphia, PA  19107
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Sponsor: Philly Home Show
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Adults learn a craft technique and make a work of art to take home. Wine and refreshments will be available in the café while you create. $15 Members, $20 Non-Members.  Jan 17 Embroidery...

Cost: $15 Members, $20 Non-Members.

Where:
Delaware Art Museum
2301 Kentmere Parkway
Wilmington, DE  19806
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Website »

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LEGALLY BLONDE JR. Tickets: $10 All Seats Based on the award-winning Broadway musical and the smash hit motion picture, Legally BlondeThe Musical JR. is a fabulously fun journey of...

Cost: $10.00

Where:
Everett Theatre
47 W. Main Street
Middletown, DE  19709
View map »

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CCArts Winter class registrations are open   The Center for the Creative Arts presents its Winter 2019 class and workshop offerings. With over 50 classes and workshops there is...

Cost: 0.00

Where:
410 Upper Snuff Mill Row
410 Upper Snuff Mill Row
Hockessin, DE  19736
View map »


Telephone: 302-239-2434
Contact Name: Nicole Schmid
Website »

More information

Winter Group Show  A rotating group show featuring an eclectic mix of artwork including paintings, drawings, ceramics, art glass and jewelry. Custom Framing and Gift Certificates are always...

Cost: free

Where:
The Station Gallery
3922 Kennett Pike
Greenville, DE  19807
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Telephone: 302-654-8638
Website »

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NEW HEIGHTS Erica Loustau  January 11 - December 11, 2019 Opening Reception: Friday, January 11, 2019  7 - 9 PM Seeking to engage the unused space of our atrium lobby, artist...

Cost: FREE

Where:
The Delaware Contemporary
200 South Madison Street
Wilmington, DE  19801
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Telephone: 130-265-66466
Website »

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A SENSE OF PLACE 47°-80° N Bethany Springer January 16 - May 12, 2019 Opening Reception: Friday, February 1, 2019 | 5 - 9 PM during Art Loop A Sense of Place 47° - 80°...

Cost: FREE

Where:
The Delaware Contemporary
200 South Madison Street
Wilmington, DE  19801
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Telephone: 130-265-66466
Website »

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IN BETWEEN THEREShelley Thorstensen November 24, 2018 - March 17, 2019 Opening Reception: Friday, December 7 | 5 - 9 PM during Art Loop For her first solo exhibition in Delaware,...

Cost: FREE

Where:
The Delaware Contemporary
200 South Madison Street
Wilmington, DE  19801
View map »


Telephone: 130-265-66466

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Bernard Jackson Felch, who passed away in 2008 at the age of 83, was an accomplished water-colorist, sculptor, ceramicist and teacher whose work has been seen in museums, schools, universities,...

Cost: Free

Where:
Delaware College of Art and Design’s Toni & Stuart
600 N. Market St.
Wilmington , DE  19801
View map »


Sponsor: DCAD
Telephone: 302-622-8000
Contact Name: Susan Couby

More information

Pre-Raphaelite painter and women’s rights campaigner Barbara Leigh Smith Bodichon (1827–1891) was an early female participant in the Pre-Raphaelite movement. Landscape was Bodichon’s...

Cost: Free for members. Included in Museum admission fee for non-members.

Where:
Delaware Art Museum
2301 Kentmere Parkway
Wilmington, DE  19806
View map »

More information

THE FAR IS NEAR Graham Dougherty & Ruth Ansel January 5 - 31, 2019 Opening reception: January 11  | 7 - 9 PM Graham Dougherty  ”We give shape...

Cost: FREE

Where:
The Delaware Contemporary
200 South Madison Street
Wilmington, DE  19801
View map »


Telephone: 130-265-66466

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For more than 90 years, the Delaware Art Museum has showcased contemporary craft by artists working locally and throughout the region. The Museum’s first juried Contemporary Crafts Show was...

Cost: Free for members. Included in Museum admission fee for non-members.

Where:
Delaware Art Museum
2301 Kentmere Parkway
Wilmington, DE  19806
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Glory of Stories introduces young visitors to art and the Museum through discovery, exploration, and hands-on experiences.Ages 2 and up. Visit delart.org for list of books. ...

Cost: Free to Members, $5 per child and one adult free for Non-Members.

Where:
Delaware Art Museum
2301 Kentmere Parkway
Wilmington, DE  19806
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Website »

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Glory of Stories introduces young visitors to art and the Museum through a story reading followed by an interactive tour of relevant works of art and a studio art project. This program encourages...

Cost: Free to Members, $5 per child and one adult free for Non-Members

Where:
Delaware Art Museum
2301 Kentmere Parkway
Wilmington, DE  19806
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HALF : HALF A Draper Experiment by Willie Yao January 4 -  February 24, 2019 Opening Reception: Friday, February 1 5 - 9 PM during Art Loop The Delaware Contemporary...

Cost: FREE

Where:
The Delaware Contemporary
200 South Madison Street
Wilmington, DE  19801
View map »


Telephone: 130-265-66466

More information

Schedule a private group tour followed by lunch or dinner with a historic, revolutionary war era presentation.* Ideal for conferences, corporate meetings, special interest groups. $25 per...

Cost: $25–$45

Where:
The University and Whist Club
805 N Broom St
Wilmington, DE  19806
View map »


Sponsor: The University and Whist Club
Telephone: 302-658-5125
Contact Name: Stacey Inglis
Website »

More information

Featuring designer solutions for small interior spaces and backyards, hands-on DIY project workshops and a Succulent Bar, more than 300 exhibitors, and home design celebrities Clint Harp and Matt...

Cost: $10

Where:
Pennsylvania Convention Center
1101 Arch Street
Exhibition Hall F
Philadelphia, PA  19107
View map »


Sponsor: Philly Home Show
Website »

More information

ORIGINS Rick Rothrock & Stan Smokler January 8 - April 22, 2019 Special Reception: Friday, January 11, 2019  5:30 - 7:30 PM Artist Talk | 6:30 PM The Delaware Contemporary...

Cost: FREE

Where:
The Delaware Contemporary
200 South Madison Street
Wilmington, DE  19801
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Telephone: 130-265-66466

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CASA of Camden County Presents a Benefit Show with Renowned Illusionist Jason Bishop. Enjoy a night of incredible entertainment with the whole family while supporting the efforts of CASA throughout...

Cost: $25

Where:
Pfleeger Concert Hall, Rowan University
North Campus Drive
Glassboro, NJ  08028
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Sponsor: CASA of Camden County
Telephone: 856-361-7180
Contact Name: Jonathan Cummings
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LEGALLY BLONDE JR. Tickets: $10 All Seats Based on the award-winning Broadway musical and the smash hit motion picture, Legally BlondeThe Musical JR. is a fabulously fun journey of...

Cost: $10.00

Where:
Everett Theatre
47 W. Main Street
Middletown, DE  19709
View map »

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“An engaging exploration of what can be achieved by bringing ancient and modern into creative fusion.” – Jazzwise   Experience new sounds from the ancient...

Cost: $30 Members, $35 Non-members, $25 Students

Where:
Delaware Art Museum
2301 Kentmere Parkway
Wilmington, DE  19806
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Winter Group Show  A rotating group show featuring an eclectic mix of artwork including paintings, drawings, ceramics, art glass and jewelry. Custom Framing and Gift Certificates are always...

Cost: free

Where:
The Station Gallery
3922 Kennett Pike
Greenville, DE  19807
View map »


Telephone: 302-654-8638
Website »

More information

CCArts Winter class registrations are open   The Center for the Creative Arts presents its Winter 2019 class and workshop offerings. With over 50 classes and workshops there is...

Cost: 0.00

Where:
410 Upper Snuff Mill Row
410 Upper Snuff Mill Row
Hockessin, DE  19736
View map »


Telephone: 302-239-2434
Contact Name: Nicole Schmid
Website »

More information

Sharpen your pencils for the 15th DCAD Drawing Marathon! This full-day festival of figure drawing will feature models in a variety of poses and vignettes.

Cost: $30 in advance or $35 at the door.

Where:
Delaware College of Art and Design
600 N. Market St. Wilmington, DE 19801
Wilmington, DE  19801
View map »


Sponsor: Delaware College of Art and Design
Telephone: 302-622-8000
Contact Name: Randle Reed

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NEW HEIGHTS Erica Loustau  January 11 - December 11, 2019 Opening Reception: Friday, January 11, 2019  7 - 9 PM Seeking to engage the unused space of our atrium lobby, artist...

Cost: FREE

Where:
The Delaware Contemporary
200 South Madison Street
Wilmington, DE  19801
View map »


Telephone: 130-265-66466
Website »

More information

A SENSE OF PLACE 47°-80° N Bethany Springer January 16 - May 12, 2019 Opening Reception: Friday, February 1, 2019 | 5 - 9 PM during Art Loop A Sense of Place 47° - 80°...

Cost: FREE

Where:
The Delaware Contemporary
200 South Madison Street
Wilmington, DE  19801
View map »


Telephone: 130-265-66466
Website »

More information

IN BETWEEN THEREShelley Thorstensen November 24, 2018 - March 17, 2019 Opening Reception: Friday, December 7 | 5 - 9 PM during Art Loop For her first solo exhibition in Delaware,...

Cost: FREE

Where:
The Delaware Contemporary
200 South Madison Street
Wilmington, DE  19801
View map »


Telephone: 130-265-66466

More information

Bernard Jackson Felch, who passed away in 2008 at the age of 83, was an accomplished water-colorist, sculptor, ceramicist and teacher whose work has been seen in museums, schools, universities,...

Cost: Free

Where:
Delaware College of Art and Design’s Toni & Stuart
600 N. Market St.
Wilmington , DE  19801
View map »


Sponsor: DCAD
Telephone: 302-622-8000
Contact Name: Susan Couby

More information

Pre-Raphaelite painter and women’s rights campaigner Barbara Leigh Smith Bodichon (1827–1891) was an early female participant in the Pre-Raphaelite movement. Landscape was Bodichon’s...

Cost: Free for members. Included in Museum admission fee for non-members.

Where:
Delaware Art Museum
2301 Kentmere Parkway
Wilmington, DE  19806
View map »

More information

THE FAR IS NEAR Graham Dougherty & Ruth Ansel January 5 - 31, 2019 Opening reception: January 11  | 7 - 9 PM Graham Dougherty  ”We give shape...

Cost: FREE

Where:
The Delaware Contemporary
200 South Madison Street
Wilmington, DE  19801
View map »


Telephone: 130-265-66466

More information

For more than 90 years, the Delaware Art Museum has showcased contemporary craft by artists working locally and throughout the region. The Museum’s first juried Contemporary Crafts Show was...

Cost: Free for members. Included in Museum admission fee for non-members.

Where:
Delaware Art Museum
2301 Kentmere Parkway
Wilmington, DE  19806
View map »

More information

Schedule a private group tour followed by lunch or dinner with a historic, revolutionary war era presentation.* Ideal for conferences, corporate meetings, special interest groups. $25 per...

Cost: $25–$45

Where:
The University and Whist Club
805 N Broom St
Wilmington, DE  19806
View map »


Sponsor: The University and Whist Club
Telephone: 302-658-5125
Contact Name: Stacey Inglis
Website »

More information

HALF : HALF A Draper Experiment by Willie Yao January 4 -  February 24, 2019 Opening Reception: Friday, February 1 5 - 9 PM during Art Loop The Delaware Contemporary...

Cost: FREE

Where:
The Delaware Contemporary
200 South Madison Street
Wilmington, DE  19801
View map »


Telephone: 130-265-66466

More information

Featuring designer solutions for small interior spaces and backyards, hands-on DIY project workshops and a Succulent Bar, more than 300 exhibitors, and home design celebrities Clint Harp and Matt...

Cost: $10

Where:
Pennsylvania Convention Center
1101 Arch Street
Exhibition Hall F
Philadelphia, PA  19107
View map »


Sponsor: Philly Home Show
Website »

More information

ORIGINS Rick Rothrock & Stan Smokler January 8 - April 22, 2019 Special Reception: Friday, January 11, 2019  5:30 - 7:30 PM Artist Talk | 6:30 PM The Delaware Contemporary...

Cost: FREE

Where:
The Delaware Contemporary
200 South Madison Street
Wilmington, DE  19801
View map »


Telephone: 130-265-66466

More information

Sharpen your pencils for the 15th DCAD Drawing Marathon! This full-day festival of figure drawing will feature models in a variety of poses and vignettes.

Cost: $30 in advance or $35 at the door.

Where:
Delaware College of Art and Design
600 N. Market St. Wilmington, DE 19801
Wilmington, DE  19801
View map »


Sponsor: Delaware College of Art and Design
Telephone: 302-622-8000
Contact Name: Randle Reed

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Nancy Viau - Afternoon With The Author Join the Hockessin Book Shelf and Children's Book Author Nancy Viau on Saturday, January 19th for a Book Reading, Craft, Discussion, and...

Cost: Free

Where:
Hockessin BookShelf
7179 Lancaster Pike
hockessin, DE  19707
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Telephone: 302-235-7665

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LEGALLY BLONDE JR. Tickets: $10 All Seats Based on the award-winning Broadway musical and the smash hit motion picture, Legally BlondeThe Musical JR. is a fabulously fun journey of...

Cost: $10.00

Where:
Everett Theatre
47 W. Main Street
Middletown, DE  19709
View map »

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The Rocky Horror Picture Show This interactive movie experience combines film and live performers. The cult-classic is a humorous tribute to the science fiction and horror B movies of the late...

Cost: 9

Where:
Theatre N
235 W. 10th St
Wilmington, DE  19801
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Sponsor: Frankie's Midnight Runners
Telephone: 302-571-4075
Contact Name: Richard
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